Friday, February 26, 2010
Hurry Up!
I am in need of summertime. Windows down, music blaring (rap, smooth jazz and some ol skool jams). So hot my skin is sticking to the leather seats of my ride. I'm smellin all good and what-not, big silver hoops dangling from the tiny holes in my lobes. Legs and shoulders all oiled up and glistening from the baby oil. Body glowing from a poolside tan. Toes painted, high heels on. Hair wild, unruly and sexy. No need for make-up, cheeks naturally rosy. Lips glossy (you'll never catch me without a shine on my pucker). Cool shades on...of course. A little money in my bag for frivolous purposes. Dining on the patio of some eatery, chillin wit my gurls, sippin sangria and takin tequila shots to tha head. Boys walkin by, watchin us, winkin and wavin, tryna get my attention and tryna make me smile. I toss my head back and laugh out loud...all the while thinking private thoughts and doin a lil shimmy in my seat at the tune that plays in my mind..."today was a good day." Man, am I in need of summertime.
Thursday, September 24, 2009
In the words of Salt N Pepa: I'll Take Your Man (NOT)
Wow...I just got my first UNWARRANTED Facebook "slap". Dude - you really need to check your girl and get your business in order. Imagine my surprise and dismay to open my email to find a NASTY note from your girl. She basically called me everything except a child of God and the trip part is I'm not the one she should be directing her rant towards - it wasn't, nor has it ever been me. On top of which she's a COWARD for emailing me and then blocking her account so I can't reply. I hope she is still accessing FB and seeing my wall posts and photos through YOUR account because I'm inviting her to reach-out again. DNJ: I do not want your man. Have never so much as kissed him on the lips - let alone all the things you WRONGLY accused me of. You must really be hurt and insecure -- that one innocent picture (just like the ones he takes with EVERY chick he knows) has you so twisted you were forced to use my first AND last name as you were blasting me for something I didn't do. I'm angry because I'm unable to directly defend myself against your inaccurate tirade and am forced to post this nonsense just to vent (until your dude returns my phone call then I can let him have it as well). It's obvious that you and your man have problems and major trust issues, but trust this boo...If I wanted him, we would have been there done that, but contrary to your beliefs, every woman is not a whore, nor after what you think is yours. YOU should be ashamed of YOURSELF for jumping the gun and calling out THE WRONG CHICK. I guess I should start to expect blocked calls to show up on my phone next huh??? Do us both a favor doll and be woman enough to actually make yourself known and engage in conversation. Note: The ONLY thing I am ashamed of right now is having him as a buddy, poor judgment choice on my part since he obviously can't keep his life in check. You should RE-CHECK your lame facts and incorrect information -- I'm sure you will find that you owe me a HUGE apology. There might be some woman or women your dude is involved with, but I AM NOT ONE OF THEM. Lastly, him telling me to make my account PRIVATE - you must be on crack!!! NOT!!! For what??? We are just buddies - he don't run this, cuz one doesn't control their FRIENDS! What a dumbass you are. Silly Rabbit...tricks are for kids. Sincerely, Nicole R. Grays (don't forget to add my middle initial the next time you wanna go off on me, you stupid, sneaky, immature cow). For those who know me...somebody better tell this ignorant broad who I am and quick. A REAL woman knows you don't attack the "other woman" (which I AM NOT) you check YOUR MAN. Humph! I'm done with this!
Monday, August 31, 2009
Forty and Fabulous
What a title huh?!? Sigh...well, keeping in line with my thoughts as of late IIWII. That my dear readers means: It is what it is.
Those of you who know me personally, and love me ANYWAY, know that I can toss the F word better than Vick, McNabb, Romo or Culpepper can throw a pigskin and I do so frequently and with abandon! Apologies if I've offended thine ears.
They say (and don't ask me who 'they' are) that when you turn forty everything changes. I'm here to tell you - I'm on day 19 of being newly 40 -- things in the game done changed and I'm lovin every minute of it.
Although I've never been one to shy away from a good set of Wahl clippers, I have been rocking a mega weave for almost a year now and at one point (before the big 4-0) I was having withdrawl symptoms if I wasn't able to get it tightened up on a regular. I had to grab ahold of myself and quick, 'cause Niko Grey cannot and will not let some hair (especially someone elses) run thangs up in here (lol). Needless to say, I've recently cut off all my hair -- the $500 weave and my own and damn if I don't look good either way! (wink)
I've also never been one to rely heavily on the words of others, although as a human being, I'd be lying if I said others opinions of me hadn't made me think (not act) differently about my actions from time to time. However, these past fews days I've had a revelation: I don't care what you think of me or say about me or to me. In fact, I'm thinking of making a t-shirt that reads: SNITCHES DON'T LIKE ME (and I don't care).
Forty is liberating. It's an excellent excuse to do exactly what the (insert expletive here) I want to do and dare you to call me on it. In fact, I double-dog dare you (wicked smile and dancing eyebrows).
Now don't get it twisted, I'm not about to become a complete jerk, but I am about to be a little free-er (is that even a word) about any and everything I want -- aaaaannnnnd, if you don't like it, might I suggest you do a Spaulding and B_O_U_N_C_E. Forewarned is forearmed I always say. Put that in your pipe and smoke it.
Forty is freakishly fabulous, freeing, fresh and feminine. Dare I say, me likey a lot.
LATER on SCENES: The real dirt (stay tuned).
Niko
Those of you who know me personally, and love me ANYWAY, know that I can toss the F word better than Vick, McNabb, Romo or Culpepper can throw a pigskin and I do so frequently and with abandon! Apologies if I've offended thine ears.
They say (and don't ask me who 'they' are) that when you turn forty everything changes. I'm here to tell you - I'm on day 19 of being newly 40 -- things in the game done changed and I'm lovin every minute of it.
Although I've never been one to shy away from a good set of Wahl clippers, I have been rocking a mega weave for almost a year now and at one point (before the big 4-0) I was having withdrawl symptoms if I wasn't able to get it tightened up on a regular. I had to grab ahold of myself and quick, 'cause Niko Grey cannot and will not let some hair (especially someone elses) run thangs up in here (lol). Needless to say, I've recently cut off all my hair -- the $500 weave and my own and damn if I don't look good either way! (wink)
I've also never been one to rely heavily on the words of others, although as a human being, I'd be lying if I said others opinions of me hadn't made me think (not act) differently about my actions from time to time. However, these past fews days I've had a revelation: I don't care what you think of me or say about me or to me. In fact, I'm thinking of making a t-shirt that reads: SNITCHES DON'T LIKE ME (and I don't care).
Forty is liberating. It's an excellent excuse to do exactly what the (insert expletive here) I want to do and dare you to call me on it. In fact, I double-dog dare you (wicked smile and dancing eyebrows).
Now don't get it twisted, I'm not about to become a complete jerk, but I am about to be a little free-er (is that even a word) about any and everything I want -- aaaaannnnnd, if you don't like it, might I suggest you do a Spaulding and B_O_U_N_C_E. Forewarned is forearmed I always say. Put that in your pipe and smoke it.
Forty is freakishly fabulous, freeing, fresh and feminine. Dare I say, me likey a lot.
LATER on SCENES: The real dirt (stay tuned).
Niko
Tuesday, June 2, 2009
THEN and NOW
Hello Peoples.
My bad (and a self-inflicted slap on the wrist) for not writing sooner. I’ve been a little busy with my side hustle. I’ve recently started acting as a talent manager for Terry Cummings, retired baller, now R&B singer and I have been busy as heck. Sorry for neglecting my post.
There was a tidbit from Rev Run a week or so ago that read: “WANT MORE? Big jobs usually go to those who out grew their small jobs! Remember, nobody's giving gallon jobs to half pint people!” With my newly added side gig I guess I’ve outgrown my present status and am moving towards my future status, which brings me to my “inspirational vitamin” for last week (thanks for that phrase Stallion).
Weekly Thought: “You can’t use the PAST to fill what’s missing in the PRESENT.”
How many of us spend time focusing on what was? Dwelling on hurt feelings, licking old wounds, bringing up old $#&%, crying over missed opportunities, looking for old loves and regretting past mistakes…you know, basically wishing for a “do-over”. It’s kinda like you missed your life calling and wishing it would call back (smile).
Be happy TODAY...focus on TODAY...relish TODAY...appreciate TODAY...live for TODAY and then look forward to TOMORROW and all that might come with it, whether it be rainbows or thunderstorms. Now, I’m not saying that we shouldn’t reflect on what was (then keep it pushin folks). You gotta learn from your past or you’ll keep repeating that same old tune, which will eventually turn into an old broken record. Trust me on this. I know.
Today is a new day. Another chance to get it right. Another chance to do something pleasing in God’s sight. Tomorrow is not promised and yesterday is a wrap, so let’s get it going people!!! How will you make it better TODAY?!? I promise you, as soon as you let go of all that WAS you will clearly see all that IS. It’s right in front of your face. Pop in those contacts, clean off your glasses or better yet, just OPEN YOUR EYES.
In closing, let’s have a moment of silence for the PAST. (all heads bowed, all eyes closed) Amen.
Laugh, Love and LIVE.
Niko
My bad (and a self-inflicted slap on the wrist) for not writing sooner. I’ve been a little busy with my side hustle. I’ve recently started acting as a talent manager for Terry Cummings, retired baller, now R&B singer and I have been busy as heck. Sorry for neglecting my post.
There was a tidbit from Rev Run a week or so ago that read: “WANT MORE? Big jobs usually go to those who out grew their small jobs! Remember, nobody's giving gallon jobs to half pint people!” With my newly added side gig I guess I’ve outgrown my present status and am moving towards my future status, which brings me to my “inspirational vitamin” for last week (thanks for that phrase Stallion).
Weekly Thought: “You can’t use the PAST to fill what’s missing in the PRESENT.”
How many of us spend time focusing on what was? Dwelling on hurt feelings, licking old wounds, bringing up old $#&%, crying over missed opportunities, looking for old loves and regretting past mistakes…you know, basically wishing for a “do-over”. It’s kinda like you missed your life calling and wishing it would call back (smile).
Be happy TODAY...focus on TODAY...relish TODAY...appreciate TODAY...live for TODAY and then look forward to TOMORROW and all that might come with it, whether it be rainbows or thunderstorms. Now, I’m not saying that we shouldn’t reflect on what was (then keep it pushin folks). You gotta learn from your past or you’ll keep repeating that same old tune, which will eventually turn into an old broken record. Trust me on this. I know.
Today is a new day. Another chance to get it right. Another chance to do something pleasing in God’s sight. Tomorrow is not promised and yesterday is a wrap, so let’s get it going people!!! How will you make it better TODAY?!? I promise you, as soon as you let go of all that WAS you will clearly see all that IS. It’s right in front of your face. Pop in those contacts, clean off your glasses or better yet, just OPEN YOUR EYES.
In closing, let’s have a moment of silence for the PAST. (all heads bowed, all eyes closed) Amen.
Laugh, Love and LIVE.
Niko
Tuesday, May 19, 2009
God isn't so Mysterious Afterall
Hello Good People:
It's been awhile since I've checked in. What can I say? I write when I'm inspired. When I'm not, I keep my trap shut. Hope all is well in your world.
I've heard it said that "God works in mysterious ways" and while I'm sure that I'm not privy to everything He's up to, sometimes He's very point blank and puts it right out there for everyone to admire. I'm thankful when He speaks plain English. I'm a little slow on the uptake from time to time, impatient and not always paying attention, so when He picks me up, strategically places me where He wants me and winds me up and says "Go child, go!" I am very grateful.
Personally and professionally things don't always go the way I want or expect, but when I'm obedient and faithful He answers. God has my life all mapped out for me. Road bumps, orange cones, speeding tickets, potholes and all.
Recently, I've gone above and beyond what my human self wanted to do, but God said "Do this" "Don't tarry" "Don't question" "I'm using you" "You are just the vessel" "It feels odd, but do my will" and so I did. While everyone around me was saying "Gurl...that ain't what I woulda done" "Chile, umph nooooooo, I don't think so" "Chick, you are better than me, cuz I woulda...." Now don't get it twisted...these are my peeps. They got my back and I am GRATEFUL for their support, their ear and their energy, but I knew all along He was using me... I just thought I woulda gotta lil sumthin outta the deal...and guess what...I did. (laughing) IT JUST WASN'T WHAT I THOUGHT I'D GET. Ever heard about God's sense of humor? Well, He definitely has one and it's a doosie.
The blessings I received today far surpass my expectations. In fact, I had no idea what was in store for me, but He knew. And all I had to do was be obedient. Do His will. Listen.
I'm growing people.
A friend of mine, Jerome Gray, recently posted a tidbit on his Facebook page: It reads "Lift as you climb." I've tailored it a bit to better suit me: "Lift, it builds great muscles for climbing."
Ha! I don told you...ya'll ain't ready. See you on my way to the top. I don't know if you will be over me or under me, but if you are in either position don't forget to do your exercises. Lifting and climbing BOTH do a heart good!
Holla if you hear me.
Niko
It's been awhile since I've checked in. What can I say? I write when I'm inspired. When I'm not, I keep my trap shut. Hope all is well in your world.
I've heard it said that "God works in mysterious ways" and while I'm sure that I'm not privy to everything He's up to, sometimes He's very point blank and puts it right out there for everyone to admire. I'm thankful when He speaks plain English. I'm a little slow on the uptake from time to time, impatient and not always paying attention, so when He picks me up, strategically places me where He wants me and winds me up and says "Go child, go!" I am very grateful.
Personally and professionally things don't always go the way I want or expect, but when I'm obedient and faithful He answers. God has my life all mapped out for me. Road bumps, orange cones, speeding tickets, potholes and all.
Recently, I've gone above and beyond what my human self wanted to do, but God said "Do this" "Don't tarry" "Don't question" "I'm using you" "You are just the vessel" "It feels odd, but do my will" and so I did. While everyone around me was saying "Gurl...that ain't what I woulda done" "Chile, umph nooooooo, I don't think so" "Chick, you are better than me, cuz I woulda...." Now don't get it twisted...these are my peeps. They got my back and I am GRATEFUL for their support, their ear and their energy, but I knew all along He was using me... I just thought I woulda gotta lil sumthin outta the deal...and guess what...I did. (laughing) IT JUST WASN'T WHAT I THOUGHT I'D GET. Ever heard about God's sense of humor? Well, He definitely has one and it's a doosie.
The blessings I received today far surpass my expectations. In fact, I had no idea what was in store for me, but He knew. And all I had to do was be obedient. Do His will. Listen.
I'm growing people.
A friend of mine, Jerome Gray, recently posted a tidbit on his Facebook page: It reads "Lift as you climb." I've tailored it a bit to better suit me: "Lift, it builds great muscles for climbing."
Ha! I don told you...ya'll ain't ready. See you on my way to the top. I don't know if you will be over me or under me, but if you are in either position don't forget to do your exercises. Lifting and climbing BOTH do a heart good!
Holla if you hear me.
Niko
Monday, May 11, 2009
Who the Heck is Corrie Ten Boom? Anybody???
Hello Good People:
I haven't blogged for 2 days and I am starting to have withdrawal symptoms. I hope you all had a splendiferous weekend. Mine was mild but very interesting (more on this later).
After my Friday night fiasco of losing all that I typed, I almost chucked my laptop out onto the patio, but I’ve decided to not hold a grudge against the SAVE button (and my jacked up memory for failing to click said button) and get on with it.
I came across a juicy tidbit on my FB (facebook) page today and it sums up EXACTLY how I feel, so I will let this be my jumping off point today: "When a train goes through a tunnel and it gets dark, you don't throw away the ticket and jump off. You sit still and trust the engineer." Corrie Ten Boom
Now, I have no freakin' idea who Corrie Ten Boom is, but that little nugget stopped me dead in my tracks when I read it.
I am not a patient person.
I am not a patient person.
I am not a patient person.
(working on this)
I'm the kinda chick who doesn't INSTINCTIVELY trust the engineer. I'm the kinda chick who first yells and screams at the top of her lungs: IT'S DARK. WHAT'S GOING ON? HURRY UP AND GET ME OUTTA HERE!!! Then I do a reality check and say to myself "Self, get it together. You are not running the show. Just get in, sit down, shut up and hold on. Everything is going to be just peachy."
That's sad isn't it? (Smiling) Well at least I acknowledge MY faults...can you say the same? LOL
Corrie Ten Boom is talking about FAITH. Simply put, faith is the belief in something or someone unseen. If I don't trust the engineer then that means I'm lacking faith. How uncool is that?
Have you checked your faith levels lately? Are you running on full, half or empty? Is something happening in your life that is testing your faith in the engineer? How are you going to handle the situation? Will you sit still and know that the engineer knows what He is doing and know that He will get you through? Or will you first scream like a banshee and cut up like I have a tendency to do (from time to time)?
Let's get it together people. Let's check the nonsense at the door and let the engineer do His thang. I'm learning as I go that when I trust in Him the train ride is a smooth journey, the dark tunnel will have light at the end of it and when I arrive at my destination I will be exactly where I'm supposed to be.
(((((((hugs))))))) if you need one.
Niko
I haven't blogged for 2 days and I am starting to have withdrawal symptoms. I hope you all had a splendiferous weekend. Mine was mild but very interesting (more on this later).
After my Friday night fiasco of losing all that I typed, I almost chucked my laptop out onto the patio, but I’ve decided to not hold a grudge against the SAVE button (and my jacked up memory for failing to click said button) and get on with it.
I came across a juicy tidbit on my FB (facebook) page today and it sums up EXACTLY how I feel, so I will let this be my jumping off point today: "When a train goes through a tunnel and it gets dark, you don't throw away the ticket and jump off. You sit still and trust the engineer." Corrie Ten Boom
Now, I have no freakin' idea who Corrie Ten Boom is, but that little nugget stopped me dead in my tracks when I read it.
I am not a patient person.
I am not a patient person.
I am not a patient person.
(working on this)
I'm the kinda chick who doesn't INSTINCTIVELY trust the engineer. I'm the kinda chick who first yells and screams at the top of her lungs: IT'S DARK. WHAT'S GOING ON? HURRY UP AND GET ME OUTTA HERE!!! Then I do a reality check and say to myself "Self, get it together. You are not running the show. Just get in, sit down, shut up and hold on. Everything is going to be just peachy."
That's sad isn't it? (Smiling) Well at least I acknowledge MY faults...can you say the same? LOL
Corrie Ten Boom is talking about FAITH. Simply put, faith is the belief in something or someone unseen. If I don't trust the engineer then that means I'm lacking faith. How uncool is that?
Have you checked your faith levels lately? Are you running on full, half or empty? Is something happening in your life that is testing your faith in the engineer? How are you going to handle the situation? Will you sit still and know that the engineer knows what He is doing and know that He will get you through? Or will you first scream like a banshee and cut up like I have a tendency to do (from time to time)?
Let's get it together people. Let's check the nonsense at the door and let the engineer do His thang. I'm learning as I go that when I trust in Him the train ride is a smooth journey, the dark tunnel will have light at the end of it and when I arrive at my destination I will be exactly where I'm supposed to be.
(((((((hugs))))))) if you need one.
Niko
Friday, May 8, 2009
OMG?!?
My first roadblock. I've been typing for an hour working on tonight's post. I went to preview it without saving it first and all my work is gone. I am literally sitting here pulling out my hair (with my free hand, I'm typing with the other). Let me see if I can recreate it. Arghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!! Into every life a little rain must fall. Cheese and crackers people. :-P
Thursday, May 7, 2009
Hush Yo Mouf.
Good Evening Folks:
It's a humid Friday Eve here in The A. Work was work and a sistah is glad to be home. I'm sitting in the middle of my fluffy, queen sized bed watching 106 & Park on BET. They are showing a Keyshia Cole 'flashback joint' and I'm swaying back and forth and singing along. I just talked to my home gurl Esti and she asked if I started blogging for the night. I told her I was just logging on and what my subject matter for the day would be...then she said "Oh boy". So here we go...
Have you ever met a person who makes you want to say "Please. Put a sock in it!"? The kind of person who makes you want to say "Just shut up already!"? I have. In fact, I've probably even been THAT person (lol). The bible says: 'study' to be quiet. It doesn't say anything about 'taking a crash course' (thanks Esti).
Just because you have something to say doesn't always mean you should actually say it. Some thoughts should remain as such...in your pretty little head. I don't know about you, but I have a tendency to speak my mind, which isn't always appropriate, but it's difficult for me to hold back and so I just blurt things out as I see fit and because I feel like it. Besides, you're not the boss of me (smile). This is sometimes offensive to others, so I'm learning to pull back a little and tailor my convo to fit the MOOD of those around me or the SITUATION.
The flip side of that is WORDS are very liberating and powerful. They can encourage, persuade, incite, soothe, enrage, calm, impact, change, motivate, inspire, hurt, expose, amuse, confuse, heal, comfort, placate, convince...this list can go on and on...
Let's watch what we say people. Let's not just rattle off stuff to hear the sound of our own voices. Let's not be afraid or uncomfortable with silence. Let's think BEFORE we speak. Let's have something worth saying before we open our pie holes. Most importantly it's never WHAT we say, but HOW we say it.
In closing, here is a quip I received via email a day or so ago.
Four things you can't recover:
The time.....after it's gone.
The occasion.....after it's missed.
The stone.....after it's thrown.
The WORD.....after it's said.
If any of this hit too close to home for some of you, the wound can only sting if it's open. On that note, Im out. WORD to yo mutha'.
Affectionately,
Niko
It's a humid Friday Eve here in The A. Work was work and a sistah is glad to be home. I'm sitting in the middle of my fluffy, queen sized bed watching 106 & Park on BET. They are showing a Keyshia Cole 'flashback joint' and I'm swaying back and forth and singing along. I just talked to my home gurl Esti and she asked if I started blogging for the night. I told her I was just logging on and what my subject matter for the day would be...then she said "Oh boy". So here we go...
Have you ever met a person who makes you want to say "Please. Put a sock in it!"? The kind of person who makes you want to say "Just shut up already!"? I have. In fact, I've probably even been THAT person (lol). The bible says: 'study' to be quiet. It doesn't say anything about 'taking a crash course' (thanks Esti).
Just because you have something to say doesn't always mean you should actually say it. Some thoughts should remain as such...in your pretty little head. I don't know about you, but I have a tendency to speak my mind, which isn't always appropriate, but it's difficult for me to hold back and so I just blurt things out as I see fit and because I feel like it. Besides, you're not the boss of me (smile). This is sometimes offensive to others, so I'm learning to pull back a little and tailor my convo to fit the MOOD of those around me or the SITUATION.
The flip side of that is WORDS are very liberating and powerful. They can encourage, persuade, incite, soothe, enrage, calm, impact, change, motivate, inspire, hurt, expose, amuse, confuse, heal, comfort, placate, convince...this list can go on and on...
Let's watch what we say people. Let's not just rattle off stuff to hear the sound of our own voices. Let's not be afraid or uncomfortable with silence. Let's think BEFORE we speak. Let's have something worth saying before we open our pie holes. Most importantly it's never WHAT we say, but HOW we say it.
In closing, here is a quip I received via email a day or so ago.
Four things you can't recover:
The time.....after it's gone.
The occasion.....after it's missed.
The stone.....after it's thrown.
The WORD.....after it's said.
If any of this hit too close to home for some of you, the wound can only sting if it's open. On that note, Im out. WORD to yo mutha'.
Affectionately,
Niko
Wednesday, May 6, 2009
Stop Biting off More Than You Can Chew.
Hello Peoples:
I hope you all had a wonderful Wednesday. Even though I didn't sleep much last night (get your mind out of the gutter), today turned out a lot better than I expected. For starters, on my way into the office, a 25 year old pulled up next to me at a red light and chatted me up. Lucky for him I'm no cradle robber (smile). Since I'm old enough to be that boy's momma I sped off with a wave of my hand and a beep of my horn and kept it pushin'. I also received some really inspiring feedback about this new blog -- needless to say that made my day. Thus the smile on my face now as I click away on these keys.
I have a friend in Cali, her name is Ketai, and she has this saying: "If you can't FEED the baby, then don't HAVE the baby." Although she means this in it's most literal sense, I on the other hand have added my own little warped spin to it. I'm a little twisted. What can I say?
I look at it like this...If you're not ready for "it" (whatever your "it" may be), then leave "it" where "it" is. Meaning, you shouldn't accept the challenge if you're not certain you can handle it. Quit standing in line for seconds when you still have uneaten food on your plate. And last but not least, don't let your mouth write a check your behind can't cash. You feel me?
As human beings we are self-centered (put the baseball bats down people, I'm talking about myself here) and selfish. We want it all -- brand new socks AND draws. But sometimes we're not ready or capable of taking on everything that our eyes covet and our hearts desire. It takes quite a bit of willpower to just sit still until the time is right. If it's truly meant for you it will be there. No need in you running over to collect and hoard every little thing you lay eyes on, especially when you might not be in a position to HOLD ONTO IT.
I came across this next bit on my Facebook page today. It's contibuted by Charles E. Flowers III and it quips: Be careful when it comes to what you want and what you need. Chasing what you want can leave you needing much more than you can afford.
Now that's a gem if I've ever read one.
Tomorrow is a new day. Another chance to do something pleasing in God's sight. Another chance to get it right.
Good night folks.
Love,
Niko
I hope you all had a wonderful Wednesday. Even though I didn't sleep much last night (get your mind out of the gutter), today turned out a lot better than I expected. For starters, on my way into the office, a 25 year old pulled up next to me at a red light and chatted me up. Lucky for him I'm no cradle robber (smile). Since I'm old enough to be that boy's momma I sped off with a wave of my hand and a beep of my horn and kept it pushin'. I also received some really inspiring feedback about this new blog -- needless to say that made my day. Thus the smile on my face now as I click away on these keys.
I have a friend in Cali, her name is Ketai, and she has this saying: "If you can't FEED the baby, then don't HAVE the baby." Although she means this in it's most literal sense, I on the other hand have added my own little warped spin to it. I'm a little twisted. What can I say?
I look at it like this...If you're not ready for "it" (whatever your "it" may be), then leave "it" where "it" is. Meaning, you shouldn't accept the challenge if you're not certain you can handle it. Quit standing in line for seconds when you still have uneaten food on your plate. And last but not least, don't let your mouth write a check your behind can't cash. You feel me?
As human beings we are self-centered (put the baseball bats down people, I'm talking about myself here) and selfish. We want it all -- brand new socks AND draws. But sometimes we're not ready or capable of taking on everything that our eyes covet and our hearts desire. It takes quite a bit of willpower to just sit still until the time is right. If it's truly meant for you it will be there. No need in you running over to collect and hoard every little thing you lay eyes on, especially when you might not be in a position to HOLD ONTO IT.
I came across this next bit on my Facebook page today. It's contibuted by Charles E. Flowers III and it quips: Be careful when it comes to what you want and what you need. Chasing what you want can leave you needing much more than you can afford.
Now that's a gem if I've ever read one.
Tomorrow is a new day. Another chance to do something pleasing in God's sight. Another chance to get it right.
Good night folks.
Love,
Niko
Tuesday, May 5, 2009
Have You Had Enough Yet?
Good Evening Folks:
It's Cinco de Mayo and I could not fathom being in a crowded hangout, jockeying for position at the bar, so I took a pass on the social scene tonight and decided to be constructive and do some writing instead. (Wow, that was a long run-on sentence). Anyway.
The thought for the day is: God's shoulder tap. Is it His way of asking "Have you had enough yet?"
Every now and again something will happen that makes me shake my head and pose the question to no one in particular "Why me?" "Why is this happening?" "Why do I have to go through this?" After quiet contemplation I arrived at the following: These little instances are God's way of tapping me on my shoulder and asking me "Have you had enough yet?"
Have you had enough of doing it your way? Have you had enough of this when I want you to do that? Have you had enough of the life you're living instead of the life I've planned for you? Have you had enough of being a follower when I want you to be a leader? Have you had enough of being an employee when your destiny is to be an entrepreneur? Have you had enough yet?
So the next time you find yourself walking around and scratching your head trying to figure out what the heck is going on in your life -- STOP -- and ask yourself: Is God tapping me on my shoulder? And have I had enough yet?
This wouldn't be complete without a quote and boy oh boy do I have a doosie for you. Ready? Here we go... (thanks for sharing this one Tia).
"Discernment gives us a proper frame of reference, a definite line separating good and evil. It acts as an umpire in life and blows the whistle on the spurious. It’s as particular as a pathologist peering into a microscope. Discernment picks and chooses its dates with great care. It doesn’t fall for fakes…or flirt with phonies…or dance with deceivers…or kiss counterfeits good night." Charles R. Swindoll
I know you're gonna have to read that one a couple of times...I sure did. It's a good one, isn't it?
In closing I'll leave you with this. Don't let God's should tap turn into a pimp slap. Does God DO pimp slaps? Whew. I think I already have subject matter for my next entry. (smile)
Goodnight to all...and to all a good night.
Love,
Niko
It's Cinco de Mayo and I could not fathom being in a crowded hangout, jockeying for position at the bar, so I took a pass on the social scene tonight and decided to be constructive and do some writing instead. (Wow, that was a long run-on sentence). Anyway.
The thought for the day is: God's shoulder tap. Is it His way of asking "Have you had enough yet?"
Every now and again something will happen that makes me shake my head and pose the question to no one in particular "Why me?" "Why is this happening?" "Why do I have to go through this?" After quiet contemplation I arrived at the following: These little instances are God's way of tapping me on my shoulder and asking me "Have you had enough yet?"
Have you had enough of doing it your way? Have you had enough of this when I want you to do that? Have you had enough of the life you're living instead of the life I've planned for you? Have you had enough of being a follower when I want you to be a leader? Have you had enough of being an employee when your destiny is to be an entrepreneur? Have you had enough yet?
So the next time you find yourself walking around and scratching your head trying to figure out what the heck is going on in your life -- STOP -- and ask yourself: Is God tapping me on my shoulder? And have I had enough yet?
This wouldn't be complete without a quote and boy oh boy do I have a doosie for you. Ready? Here we go... (thanks for sharing this one Tia).
"Discernment gives us a proper frame of reference, a definite line separating good and evil. It acts as an umpire in life and blows the whistle on the spurious. It’s as particular as a pathologist peering into a microscope. Discernment picks and chooses its dates with great care. It doesn’t fall for fakes…or flirt with phonies…or dance with deceivers…or kiss counterfeits good night." Charles R. Swindoll
I know you're gonna have to read that one a couple of times...I sure did. It's a good one, isn't it?
In closing I'll leave you with this. Don't let God's should tap turn into a pimp slap. Does God DO pimp slaps? Whew. I think I already have subject matter for my next entry. (smile)
Goodnight to all...and to all a good night.
Love,
Niko
Monday, May 4, 2009
Failure is not Defeat: March 18, 2009
Hello Peeps:
I didn't forget about you, I just wasn't near my laptop yesterday.
So here it is...the thought for the day: FAILURE IS NOT DEFEAT.
I hope you enjoy this excerpt/snippet from Michael Durham's Morning Meditation.
Failure doesn't mean you're a failure, it means you haven't succeeded yet.
Failure doesn't mean you've accomplished nothing, it means you’ve learned something.
Failure doesn't mean you've been a fool, it means you had a lot of faith.
Failure doesn't mean you've been disgraced, it means you were willing to try.
Failure doesn't mean you don't have it, it means you have to do something in a different way. Failure doesn't mean you're inferior, it means you're not perfect.
Failure doesn't mean you've wasted your life, it means you've a reason to start afresh.
Failure doesn't mean you should give up, it means you should try harder.
Failure doesn't mean you'll never make it, it means it'll take a little longer.
Failure doesn't mean God has abandoned you, it means God has a better idea!
Much love,
Niko
I didn't forget about you, I just wasn't near my laptop yesterday.
So here it is...the thought for the day: FAILURE IS NOT DEFEAT.
I hope you enjoy this excerpt/snippet from Michael Durham's Morning Meditation.
Failure doesn't mean you're a failure, it means you haven't succeeded yet.
Failure doesn't mean you've accomplished nothing, it means you’ve learned something.
Failure doesn't mean you've been a fool, it means you had a lot of faith.
Failure doesn't mean you've been disgraced, it means you were willing to try.
Failure doesn't mean you don't have it, it means you have to do something in a different way. Failure doesn't mean you're inferior, it means you're not perfect.
Failure doesn't mean you've wasted your life, it means you've a reason to start afresh.
Failure doesn't mean you should give up, it means you should try harder.
Failure doesn't mean you'll never make it, it means it'll take a little longer.
Failure doesn't mean God has abandoned you, it means God has a better idea!
Much love,
Niko
What Are You Doing at 2:38am?: March 25, 2009
G'mornin:
Yawn...
Although it's 0'dark thirty it is officially Wednesday, so here I go. What up, what up, what up? Or may I should say Who up, Who up, Who up?
How ya livin'?
I don't have anything profound for you this morning. My only offering is just what's on my mind at this very moment. Random thought for this Hump Day: WHEN WAS THE LAST TIME???
When was the last time you...?
Put God first and watched Him work in your life
Stayed up all night long, just talking to that special person
Kissed, again and again and again and again and again, but did nothing else
Ate dessert first
Fell in love
Let go of your past and moved on to your future
Watched a movie you wouldn't normally watch
Made a new friend
Extended yourself and helped someone out and expected nothing in return
Donated your time or clothing to a worthy cause or charity
Were completely honest (trust me, it's liberating)
Talked to your BEST FRIEND - the person who knows you and loves your butt anyway
Spoke up and made a suggestion
Laughed until you cried
Cried
Read a book (magazines don't count)
Listened to some GOOD music: Teena Marie, Earth Wind & Fire, Chaka Kahn, The Whispers
Swam in the ocean (naked)
Went swimming while it was raining outside
Watched a sunrise or a sunset
Gave a foot massage/Got a foot massage
Sat quietly and listened to your thoughts
Went for a looooooooooong drive with no paticular destination in mind
This is just my silly list, but I'd love to hear back and find out WHEN WAS THE LAST TIME YOU...???
Quote for the Day: "We regret most the chances in life we never took" Author Unknown to Me
Word for the Day: Concupiscence (noun) a strong desire, especially sexual desire; lust
As always, I'm thinking of you all.
Peace and Love,
Niko
Yawn...
Although it's 0'dark thirty it is officially Wednesday, so here I go. What up, what up, what up? Or may I should say Who up, Who up, Who up?
How ya livin'?
I don't have anything profound for you this morning. My only offering is just what's on my mind at this very moment. Random thought for this Hump Day: WHEN WAS THE LAST TIME???
When was the last time you...?
Put God first and watched Him work in your life
Stayed up all night long, just talking to that special person
Kissed, again and again and again and again and again, but did nothing else
Ate dessert first
Fell in love
Let go of your past and moved on to your future
Watched a movie you wouldn't normally watch
Made a new friend
Extended yourself and helped someone out and expected nothing in return
Donated your time or clothing to a worthy cause or charity
Were completely honest (trust me, it's liberating)
Talked to your BEST FRIEND - the person who knows you and loves your butt anyway
Spoke up and made a suggestion
Laughed until you cried
Cried
Read a book (magazines don't count)
Listened to some GOOD music: Teena Marie, Earth Wind & Fire, Chaka Kahn, The Whispers
Swam in the ocean (naked)
Went swimming while it was raining outside
Watched a sunrise or a sunset
Gave a foot massage/Got a foot massage
Sat quietly and listened to your thoughts
Went for a looooooooooong drive with no paticular destination in mind
This is just my silly list, but I'd love to hear back and find out WHEN WAS THE LAST TIME YOU...???
Quote for the Day: "We regret most the chances in life we never took" Author Unknown to Me
Word for the Day: Concupiscence (noun) a strong desire, especially sexual desire; lust
As always, I'm thinking of you all.
Peace and Love,
Niko
Follow Your Passion: April 1, 2009
Good Morning:
It's another rainy day here in The A, but I'm still gonna make it do what it do baby.
On my drive in to work this morning I had a long chat with my handsome boo about me getting back to doing me. God has blessed me with the gift of CREATIVITY. Among other things - I write, I design t-shirts, I decorate a mean crib...Creativity is my PASSION.
So the message to you this week is: DO YOU BOO! What is your PASSION?
Hone your skills, take that class, find a mentor, carve out time to follow your dreams, focus on your goals...Spend less time talkin 'bout it and be about it. God has blessed us all to do something.
Is your PASSION singing, working on motorcycles, web design, party planning, getting that bomb azz idea patented, starting your own business??? Whatever it is...GET ON IT! TODAY!! DON'T WASTE ANOTHER MINUTE settling for the life you have!!! Go out and get the life you want!!!! The life that God has planned for you.
Quote for the Day: "Well-behaved women rarely make history." Author Unknown to Me
I don't know about you, but I'm about to show out. ;-)
Peace and Love,
Niko
It's another rainy day here in The A, but I'm still gonna make it do what it do baby.
On my drive in to work this morning I had a long chat with my handsome boo about me getting back to doing me. God has blessed me with the gift of CREATIVITY. Among other things - I write, I design t-shirts, I decorate a mean crib...Creativity is my PASSION.
So the message to you this week is: DO YOU BOO! What is your PASSION?
Hone your skills, take that class, find a mentor, carve out time to follow your dreams, focus on your goals...Spend less time talkin 'bout it and be about it. God has blessed us all to do something.
Is your PASSION singing, working on motorcycles, web design, party planning, getting that bomb azz idea patented, starting your own business??? Whatever it is...GET ON IT! TODAY!! DON'T WASTE ANOTHER MINUTE settling for the life you have!!! Go out and get the life you want!!!! The life that God has planned for you.
Quote for the Day: "Well-behaved women rarely make history." Author Unknown to Me
I don't know about you, but I'm about to show out. ;-)
Peace and Love,
Niko
I Got That Feeling: April 8, 2009
What up?! What up?! What up?!
How are you all doing on this wonderful Wednesday? I hope this email finds you all in excellent health and high spirits! I have come across all kinds of great energy and messages filled with positivity this week so I'm gonna share a couple of quotes with you all...here we go.
"People are interested in the person who is interested in them. You can make more friends in two months by becoming interested in other people than you can in two years by trying to get other people interested in you." - Dale Carnegie
"Some people are important because they make themselves so. Some people are important because other people make them so. Other people are important beacause God makes them so. They are the people who never brag or boast or know so." - Author Unknown to Me
Just two little bits for you to mull over and give a little thought to as you live your life and enjoy your day.
Lately people have noticed that I seem HAPPIER. I am. Sometimes the hardest thing to do is the easiest thing to do...Love someone openly and freely without expectation or reservation. Allow yourself to be vulnerable - allow your real self to be seen. Open your heart and give of yourself, again, without expectation - it's such a GOOD FEELING!
In closing, I am a giving person by nature, it's how I've always been. I was told yesterday by a friend that she knew of a woman who was so giving, as long as she was wearing a bra she'd probably give you the shirt off her back. Maybe that's overdoing it, but you get the idea. (smile)
I dare you to GIVE this week. To a child, to a stranger, to your family, your community, your church, to a friend, to an enemy. Just give somebody something and see if it doesn't make YOU FEEL GOOD.
SouthernBikers - sending tons of positive energy your way today and everyday. A special shout out to my love and my heart JMG, my homegurl Hunee and my cool dudes Bobby J and Jon-Jon. Be safe ya'll.
Smooches,
Niko
How are you all doing on this wonderful Wednesday? I hope this email finds you all in excellent health and high spirits! I have come across all kinds of great energy and messages filled with positivity this week so I'm gonna share a couple of quotes with you all...here we go.
"People are interested in the person who is interested in them. You can make more friends in two months by becoming interested in other people than you can in two years by trying to get other people interested in you." - Dale Carnegie
"Some people are important because they make themselves so. Some people are important because other people make them so. Other people are important beacause God makes them so. They are the people who never brag or boast or know so." - Author Unknown to Me
Just two little bits for you to mull over and give a little thought to as you live your life and enjoy your day.
Lately people have noticed that I seem HAPPIER. I am. Sometimes the hardest thing to do is the easiest thing to do...Love someone openly and freely without expectation or reservation. Allow yourself to be vulnerable - allow your real self to be seen. Open your heart and give of yourself, again, without expectation - it's such a GOOD FEELING!
In closing, I am a giving person by nature, it's how I've always been. I was told yesterday by a friend that she knew of a woman who was so giving, as long as she was wearing a bra she'd probably give you the shirt off her back. Maybe that's overdoing it, but you get the idea. (smile)
I dare you to GIVE this week. To a child, to a stranger, to your family, your community, your church, to a friend, to an enemy. Just give somebody something and see if it doesn't make YOU FEEL GOOD.
SouthernBikers - sending tons of positive energy your way today and everyday. A special shout out to my love and my heart JMG, my homegurl Hunee and my cool dudes Bobby J and Jon-Jon. Be safe ya'll.
Smooches,
Niko
Seasons and Reasons: April 15, 2009
Wzup Peeps!
It might be a little early but it is officially Wednesday and I am in full effect. Hope you all have had a wonderful week thus far. I've been hangin out in S.C. for the past couple of days and I see ya'll rollin'. Lovin it! Lovin it!. It's a good look S.C.
Are many of you on FaceBook? I recently signed up and have come into contact with A LOT of people that were once in my life, but for whatever reason, we parted ways and now we're reconnecting again. It feels good. I know some people are only in our lives for a SEASON or a REASON, but seasons change...reasons do too.
I guess my message this week is: REACH OUT. If there is a riff between you and a loved one or an old friend or just some people you lost among the shuffle of living a busy life, reach out and give them a call. Send an email, look them up on the internet, call their momma and ask for their new cell number. I bet they'll be glad to hear from you...if not, at least you gave it a shot and no harm no foul.
Today is a NEW day. What happened in the past is exactly that...the past. Holding on to ill feelings, grudges and hatred only shortens your life. Lighten up and be a light to someone who needs it. Right now someone needs to know they are loved, important, that they matter, that someone somewhere cares about them. Why don't you give them a shout and let them know how much they mean to you.
Quote for the Day: "Be the bigger person and bury the hatchet (but not in their heads lol)." Niko Grey
Peace and Love to my SouthernBikers. I'm sending goo gobs (that's a whole lot) of good vibrations and positive energy your way.
Hugs,
Niko
PS - A Special WHOOP WHOOP to Gary Ray. He says I left him out last week. Now there - you got your spotlight homie...you better shine so the world can see you! Have a GREAT day!!!
It might be a little early but it is officially Wednesday and I am in full effect. Hope you all have had a wonderful week thus far. I've been hangin out in S.C. for the past couple of days and I see ya'll rollin'. Lovin it! Lovin it!. It's a good look S.C.
Are many of you on FaceBook? I recently signed up and have come into contact with A LOT of people that were once in my life, but for whatever reason, we parted ways and now we're reconnecting again. It feels good. I know some people are only in our lives for a SEASON or a REASON, but seasons change...reasons do too.
I guess my message this week is: REACH OUT. If there is a riff between you and a loved one or an old friend or just some people you lost among the shuffle of living a busy life, reach out and give them a call. Send an email, look them up on the internet, call their momma and ask for their new cell number. I bet they'll be glad to hear from you...if not, at least you gave it a shot and no harm no foul.
Today is a NEW day. What happened in the past is exactly that...the past. Holding on to ill feelings, grudges and hatred only shortens your life. Lighten up and be a light to someone who needs it. Right now someone needs to know they are loved, important, that they matter, that someone somewhere cares about them. Why don't you give them a shout and let them know how much they mean to you.
Quote for the Day: "Be the bigger person and bury the hatchet (but not in their heads lol)." Niko Grey
Peace and Love to my SouthernBikers. I'm sending goo gobs (that's a whole lot) of good vibrations and positive energy your way.
Hugs,
Niko
PS - A Special WHOOP WHOOP to Gary Ray. He says I left him out last week. Now there - you got your spotlight homie...you better shine so the world can see you! Have a GREAT day!!!
Clarity: April 29, 2009
Good morning People:
Before I get started today, let me hip you to something…it’s been a heck of a week for me. You know if I had to hit cha’ll with the DISCLAIMER it’s about to be off da chain.
The thought for today is "CLARITY".
Clarity: (noun) clearness or lucidity as to perception or understanding; freedom from indistinctness or ambiguity; the state or quality of being clear or transparent to the eye
I could just stop there and let that one marinate, but I’m a writer, and I’d like to elaborate a tiny bit if you’ll indulge me. I have been slammed the past couple of days with all kinds of insight to a personal situation I'm in. Some came in written form, some verbal and even spiritually. It’s been crazy trying to sift through it all and determine what information I should keep close at hand and what I should let go of, but this morning it all became CLEAR. I don’t know about you, but when my inner struggle stops and everything around me is calm, then and only then can I use SOUND JUDGEMENT and make SOUND DECISIONS. I did a little “mental spinning” this week, but once I let go and let God I got just what I needed…CLARITY!
To wrap it all up, I’ll put it simply: If it barks it’s a dog, if it quacks it’s a duck and if it stinks…well…you see where I’m going with this one (smile).
Actions always speak louder than words, so pay close attention to HOW PEOPLE TREAT YOU. If you’re not being treated in a manner that is appealing to you, then I suggest you bounce.
Quote for the Day: “Why not go out on a limb? Isn’t that where the fruit is?” Frank Scully
In closing, tonight is Bike Night in my city and I’m hangin’. Hope to run into some of the ATL ridahs on Camp Creek. Be safe ya’ll and be CLEAR in your ACTIONS.
Much love,
Niko
Before I get started today, let me hip you to something…it’s been a heck of a week for me. You know if I had to hit cha’ll with the DISCLAIMER it’s about to be off da chain.
The thought for today is "CLARITY".
Clarity: (noun) clearness or lucidity as to perception or understanding; freedom from indistinctness or ambiguity; the state or quality of being clear or transparent to the eye
I could just stop there and let that one marinate, but I’m a writer, and I’d like to elaborate a tiny bit if you’ll indulge me. I have been slammed the past couple of days with all kinds of insight to a personal situation I'm in. Some came in written form, some verbal and even spiritually. It’s been crazy trying to sift through it all and determine what information I should keep close at hand and what I should let go of, but this morning it all became CLEAR. I don’t know about you, but when my inner struggle stops and everything around me is calm, then and only then can I use SOUND JUDGEMENT and make SOUND DECISIONS. I did a little “mental spinning” this week, but once I let go and let God I got just what I needed…CLARITY!
To wrap it all up, I’ll put it simply: If it barks it’s a dog, if it quacks it’s a duck and if it stinks…well…you see where I’m going with this one (smile).
Actions always speak louder than words, so pay close attention to HOW PEOPLE TREAT YOU. If you’re not being treated in a manner that is appealing to you, then I suggest you bounce.
Quote for the Day: “Why not go out on a limb? Isn’t that where the fruit is?” Frank Scully
In closing, tonight is Bike Night in my city and I’m hangin’. Hope to run into some of the ATL ridahs on Camp Creek. Be safe ya’ll and be CLEAR in your ACTIONS.
Much love,
Niko
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